How can a man ually excite a woman like a woman does a man?

Like when a woman has a curvy body, nice face, and sweet voice it turns a man into a not civilized animal, he want to rip her clothes off and do it...thats it. If a woman dances y like, the same thing happens. WHAT IN THE HELL CAN A MAN DO TO GET WOMEN THIS UALLY EXCITED!!!?We are not on the same lvl i can tell because it takes a man 1sec to 1min to get turned on ually and when he does, if they enact in the act() then its over in like 2min( how men go over 2min i dont know), but women it takes like an 1hr to turn them on and an 1hr to pleasure them. So the question is what do men have to do to turn you women on like the way you turn a man on. No bullsh%t answers be honest, what do u dream about a man doing to you and i hope it doesnt involve him dancing with his wallet in his hand lmao. Do you women have a pact at birth that u are not to tell men this secret cause we men are just dumb prideful harmonious creatures we are blind to what it is. So please tell us.